![]() ![]() “It’s impossible to control for all the variables,” said Mistress Matisse, a professional dominatrix with more than 20 years of experience. And let me note that my girlfriend has no grounding in medicine, physiology, or anything that would lead me to be comfortable trusting her judgment about choking.Ī: I have friends who are professional dominants-women who will stick needles through the head of their client’s cock and post the bloody pics to Twitter-who refuse to do breath play and/or choking scenes. I know about safe words, but can we count on them when the recipient’s larynx is being compromised and she may be close to passing out? For the record, I had no difficulty in acceding to her request to be bitten, as I know where and how hard I can do that without causing damage, but choking is an area of darkness for me. I dearly love my main squeeze-clever pun there, huh?-and I want to be GGG, but. Later I did comply, but I was definitely holding back. My instant reaction was to say no, not out of any objection in principle but because I thought it might be dangerous in my inexperienced hands. Last night, my girlfriend placed my hands around her neck and asked me to choke her. As a result, I’m damn near clueless in that area. As a faithful reader of Savage Love, I’m obviously not opposed to kinks-but I’ve never had any inclinations in that direction and am probably a typical hetero vanilla. Q: In a frank exchange early in our courtship, I told my girlfriend that I have no kinks. ![]() Best of Chicago 2022: Sports & Recreation.Best of Chicago 2022: Music & Nightlife. ![]()
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